On Christmas Eve I had a lovely surprise when I received a phone call from Mustafa in Libya. Mustafa was a student at the Colchester Institute of Higher Education for two years from 1984 to 1986. He became Nicola's boyfriend during this time and was a friend to all the family. We had some very happy times together, especially the Ipswich Town Football Club "Away Weekenders", photos of which can be seen in "Jill's Journal" entry dated 12th October 2009. I have e-mailed Paul's memorial tribute details to Mustafa and he has added his own personal message to the "Thoughts" link. It is very comforting to receive messages from friends and loved ones, especially those from far away. Mustafa is now married with two young daughters. We look forward to seeing him again one day when he visits England.